Here is a list of things you should do to avoid being a victim of a romance or online dating scam:

1. Set up a separate email account with a unique username and password for online dating purposes.
2. Be wary of generic emails or unsolicited email from strangers.
3. Look for inconsistencies in their profile and correspondence.
4. Research their name, profile picture, and any other details they provide.
5. Protect your contact information and other personal information.
6. Ensure they do not ask for money or suggest monetary transfers of any kind.
7. Trust your gut and be cautious if it does not feel right.
8. Listen to your family and friends if they express concern.
9. Report any suspicious activity to the proper authorities.